No doubt this phrase will be heard by many a parent during this Christmas and New Year period as families go away on holiday. Youngsters often do not grasp the time it takes to travel, and if they are feeling bored, they may become impatient. This is captured well in Alison Lester’s great children’s book Are we there yet?, which tells the story of a family doing a trip all around Australia. 

Many of us can become frustrated when things do not happen as quickly as we would like. In particular, when we are facing difficulties, we naturally want those circumstances to change as soon as possible.

The Bible highlights the importance of patience with one another, as well as patience with God regarding the fulfilment of His plans. James 5 speaks about patience in the face of trouble. The original recipients of this letter seem to have been Jewish Christians facing suffering and oppression on account of their faith. Yet James encourages them: “be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near.” (v. 8) Scripture promises that Christ’s return as king will bring about a new era – a time of peace, righteousness and justice. After that, there will be a new heaven and a new earth where God’s people will dwell with Him in perfect bliss forever.

Yes, in the meantime it may feel like this plan is taking too long to implement. We see the present brokenness of this world, and some effectively say to God, “are we there yet?” Some even scoff at the notion of Christ ever returning (2 Peter 3:3). Yet as it says in 2 Peter 3:9, “The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise… Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” As the gospel continues to spread, more people have the opportunity to repent and believe. “Our Lord’s patience means salvation” (2 Pet. 3:15a). So may we allow the Holy Spirit to produce in our hearts the same characteristic God displays towards us: patience. Our eternal destination will definitely be worth it!